You Clicked. That’s on You.

Welcome to my first post. In the future, the conversation and articles will be more civil, but for this first post, I think some expectations need to be set.

You Clicked. That’s on you.

Let me be upfront about something before we go any further. You will not see my face. Not now, not ever. I will use an avatar or prepared footage. The reason is practical: a large portion of those on the internet have demonstrated that the moment a face appears, the conversation stops being about ideas and becomes about the person. I am not interested in that conversation.

One more thing. If you cannot conduct yourself like an adult in the comment section, you will be blocked โ€” permanently and without a second thought. Not hidden, not muted, not warned. Gone. Meaningful conversation is welcome here, including disagreement. Dissent, challenge, pushback โ€” all of it is fine as long as the person doing it is capable of basic human conduct. If you are not, the door works both ways.

If that already bothers you, then what follows is really going to be a problem.


Something has gone wrong with people. Not a little wrong. Fundamentally, structurally, maybe irreversibly wrong. The working theory for a long time was that humanity was on an upward arc โ€” that we were, however slowly and messily, becoming more civilized, more capable of basic decency toward one another. That theory has become very hard to defend. What we are watching right now, in real time, across every platform and every public space both digital and physical, is regression. A large portion of the human race is not evolving. They are moving in the wrong direction, and doing it proudly.

The anonymity of the internet didn’t create this. It revealed it. It handed millions of people a megaphone and zero consequences and what came pouring out wasn’t suppressed brilliance or overlooked wisdom. What came out was the ugliest, pettiest, most small-minded version of people that had always been in there, sitting in the shadows waiting. Society had managed to get a grip on them, to push them back โ€” and then we started putting trash in power and the mask didn’t fall off. People took it off voluntarily and threw it in the trash.

And the people furthest from basic decency are always the loudest in demanding it from everyone else.


Here is something the internet has collectively, catastrophically forgotten: you do not have to watch things you do not like.

That’s it. That’s the whole lesson. Nobody asked you to be here. I am giving my opinion โ€” that is all โ€” and you have options.

You saw a title. You saw a thumbnail. You had some sense of what you were getting into before you clicked, but you clicked anyway, kept going until something made you angry, and came to the comment section ready to unload.

If what you brought is a genuine thought, a real counterpoint, an actual perspective worth hearing โ€” say it. That conversation is welcome. I am not married to my opinions โ€” a genuine argument that changes my mind is welcome, because that is how a person grows. But if what you brought is rage because something challenged you, or spite because you disagree and can’t articulate why without getting ugly โ€” or simply because you don’t want to hear something that might make it true โ€” this is not the place for that.

The ability to change the channel still works. The back button still works. The off switch still works. Use them. Because the alternative, if you decide to come in here sideways, is that you get blocked and the work continues without you.


There is a specific kind of person who has thrived in the current environment. They have no platform of their own. They have built nothing, created nothing, contributed nothing to any conversation worth having. They are, in the most precise sense of the word, a nobody โ€” and they know it, which is exactly why they do what they do.

What they do is find someone who has built something, who has put themselves out there and said something or made something or taken a position, and they make it their entire purpose to tear that person down. Not to argue. Not to debate. Not to add anything of value. To destroy. To harass. To send the same poisonous message from seventeen different accounts. To make the act of being a public voice feel like punishment.

And it is working. People are shutting up. People are walking away. People who had something worth saying are going quiet because the cost of saying it has become a sustained campaign of abuse from people who will never, in their entire lives, do anything of meaning. There is a quote from Warhammer 40k that says it best, “when you are gone you will not be missed” and that is exactly who these people are. Momentary noise.

This is what the internet has decided to reward. Not quality. Not courage. Not honesty. The ability to make someone else’s life miserable for sport because hatred creates engagement, not civility.

That ends here. You disagree with what I say? Good. Come with something worth saying. Come like an adult. The second you can’t manage that, you’re gone โ€” and the conversation moves on without you.


Now with all that being said, why I Am Here? Why am I putting myself out there. Well, I’m not, that is why you will never see my face.

None of what I just described has convinced me to stay quiet. That’s the part that might surprise you.

I am making videos. I am writing articles. I am adding my voice to a global conversation that is already deafeningly loud, hopelessly polluted, and badly in need of people willing to say things plainly and without apology. Not because I need the validation. I have toyed with turning comments off completely. I will brouse them to see what is said and to remove people who have typed letters but said nothing. The reason I am here is because I have things to say, and saying them matters to me, and the existence of people who will hate me for saying them is not a good enough reason to stop.

But let me make this clear. I am not special. I have an opinion and an internet connection, and that is the full extent of what separates me from anyone else doing this. When someone online says something I can’t stand, I unsubscribe and walk away. If something genuinely needs to be said, I find a way to say it directly, privately, and with respect โ€” because that is how a person handles disagreement, not by screaming into a public comment section like the world owes them an audience.

What I have to say is in the work. The work is the whole point. Come engage with it honestly and you will find that the door is wide open. Come to cause problems and you will find it closed behind you permanently.


A Word About What Comes Next

This first article was personal. It was meant to be. It was the explanation, the context, the terms of engagement laid out plainly before anything else gets said.

What comes next will be more researched, more structured, more focused on the ideas themselves. It will cover things a lot of people are not going to like. The conclusions will not be softened and the punches will not be pulled.

If you didn’t make it through this without screaming at your screen, just go now. What is coming will be worse. You were warned, right here, at the very beginning, before any of it started.


Lastly, let me address my relationship with AI directly.

I am a writer. Every word you hear or read is mine โ€” every argument, every sentence, every idea. I use AI the way a carpenter uses a level. It tells me if something is off. It often suggests maybe I should rephrase something because it is too blunt. Beyond that, the work is the work and it is mine.

Everyone seems to be demonizing AI right now, so let me offer a different image. A blank canvas. That is all it is. A tool, not a final product, and more people are beginning to understand that distinction, even if the conversation hasn’t caught up yet. I will have considerably more to say about AI and its relationship with the living in the articles ahead, because it is a subject that deserves more than a paragraph and more than panic.

But if you look at this avatar, hear this voice โ€” a voice I use because apparently my thick Southern accent is hard for many people to understand โ€” and conclude that what you’re watching is AI generated, then we are probably not going to get along. I have worked in the computer industry for forty years. I was once told back in the 8088 days, with complete sincerity, that computers were the work of the devil.

We have been here before. We know how it ends. But that is a conversation for another day.


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